Intuition tells me that 2018 is going to be sensational. It is being met with a renewed sense of self, a positive attitude and big plans. This last year’s focus has been primarily on all the unknowns regarding metastatic breast cancer but I’ve done my homework, feel prepared and confident…Bring it on.
Sayonara 2017….We made it. First let me say – my sister is the best. She sent me a box full of things I LOVE….a Himalayan salt lamp, a cute serving bowl, hand scrub (smells awesome), a soft comfy t-shirt and a pair earrings she caught me eyeballing on my trip to Houston. She’s always telling me I’m a ‘hard sell’ because I can usually talk myself out of purchasing things and she is an ‘easy sell’ so she bought them for me. Christmas Eve was a little sad knowing that our families were celebrating and we were home so to cheer myself up I watched two movies I’d never seen before, Miracle on 34th Street and Chocolat. Both were excellent movies….a lot of valuable lessons to be learned from both.
My husband and I agreed not to get each other gifts because we have everything we need, however, I did put together a small bag of cookies, candy, summer sausage and jerky for him since ‘treats’ in the house are unheard of these days. Guilt….that’s it. I was feeling guilty for depriving him of ‘ junk food’. One word….ration. I treated myself to a haircut and highlights…SOOOO needed a little pampering
Visit Family More Often…. Even though this past year has been difficult with a recurrent cancer diagnosis, there is really no excuse why I did not visit my family more. This year is going to be different. My husband and I both come from very small families, most of which all live in Texas. Our parents are getting older, my Dad will turn 80 in June. Time passes at an incredibly rapid speed these days so it’s important that every opportunity be taken.
Surround Myself With Positive People….This year I am climbing into my positivity bubble and entry will not be granted to those who ‘harsh my mellow’. The time has come to focus on myself, my health and my happiness.
Create An Environment That Cancer Hates….This is easier said than done but I’m ready to give it a whirl. There is a wealth of information available so I will make it my job to educate myself and create a body that cancer finds unsuitable.
Write and Create More….These two are the most exciting because they encompass a broad spectrum. I definitely want start cooking more and perhaps trying some new creative things.
Less TV – Less Cell Phone….TV will not be a problem because it is rare for me to sit for long periods anyway. I love documentaries and things that are real but have little use for the rest of it. .
Take More Pictures….My husband and I are the worst when it comes to remembering to take photos. This year is I am going to make it my responsibility to remember.
This does appear like a slight over-commitment but I can do it because I believe in ME.
Have a Happy New Year and may the universe bring us all abundant Blessings. 🙂